In 2010, I started going to Seattle’s Mamas with Cameras meetings. The mamas share a love of photography, and the group’s goal is to help those who attend develop the ability to take great digital photos to document family moments and milestones. Each month, there is a meeting with a speaker. And, each month, there is also an assignment based on something we learned the previous month.
Once a year there is a special assignment. Mamas pair up and swap a photo shoot with another mama in the group. For mamas (and anyone!) who spends a lot of time behind the camera, it’s rare to have pictures of yourself, much less yourself with your child.
I was matched up with Wenmei Hill, one of two fabulous women (Mary Balmaceda is the other)–both professional photographers–who started the group. Lucky me!
There was only one hitch. I didn’t have a child. I was the only “mama” attending the group who didn’t.
But when we got the assignment, Big Papa and I had already met the baby girl we hoped to adopt, the baby girl we thought would be our daughter. So, I decided “Why not?” I’d shoot photos for Wenmei and her two little sweeties and take a rain check on the swap. Once we we brought our daughter home, I’d “cash it in.”
It was an excellent plan. Except that our adoption fell through at the last minute.
Another year passed. I attended meeting after meeting. I would stay until the speaker finished and then leave before mamas shared photos they’d taken for the assignment of the month. It was too painful for me to see pictures of children and not have any of my own, particularly following the emotional devastation from our failed adoption.
And then, finally–after years of waiting–Baby Bird arrived. I was a MOM!
At the next meeting I attended, I shared the news. Wenmei graciously offered to come to our home this week and photograph the two of us–together.
When I received the email from Wenmei, with a link to our photos, I got a bit teary. On this Mother’s Day weekend, my first as a Mama after years of heartbreak and longing, these photographs symbolize so much: the bond between women–friends, sisters, mothers and daughters; the joy of photography; and, the importance of always holding on to my dreams.
Check out more of Wenmei Hill’s awesome photography at: http://wenmeihill.com/
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Deb Barrett says
Happiest of Mother’s Day to you Mama Bird! Love, love, LOVE the pics!
Debby Lee Jagerman says
Happy Mother’s Day, Beth. So glad this day you will be able to celebrate. Awesome photos, too!!
Beth Shepherd - Pampers and Pakhlava says
Thanks, Debby. Wenmei is a wonderful person and a fabulous photographer!
Robin Sizemore says
Happy Mother’s Day!!!!! These are just perfect 🙂
Kate says
This is sure to be the most wonderful MOther’s Day in the world – because your joys spillith over! Many blessings and much love.
Susan Illis says
I got a bit teary, too, reading this. Happy Mother’s Day, Beth!
Sonia says
Happy First Mother’s Day Beth!! And love the dress!! Was this purchased on one of your trips?
Beth Shepherd - Pampers and Pakhlava says
Yes, it’s an Armenian dress (from Sharan). We got it on a trip in 2010…and were so thankful it fit Baby Bird perfectly for her one-year birthday. I love it, especially because a sheep is on it and sheepherders were in my husband’s family and there were many sheepherders in the countryside where Baby Bird is from.
Wenmei says
I’ve always admired your passion and strength, Beth. I don’t think I could have continued to attend the Mamas with Cameras meetings if I were in a similar situation, and I’m in awe of your determination to hold onto your dreams. I’m so happy that I was finally able to take photos of you with your Baby Bird, and I’m honored to be a part of your journey to motherhood. I’m also super excited to see the photos you’ll be taking and sharing with us at Mamas with Cameras!
Cecelia says
Happy Mother’s Day!
Jackie says
Beautiful photos. Thinking of you on your first Mother’s Day. I know you’ll cherish every moment.
Sonja says
Oh my gosh your post got me all choked up! Congratulations to you and happy first Mother’s Day!!