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How to Travel Alone

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Woman in WestminsterI’ve been traveling alone for so many years (more than 26), that many things pertaining to travel are second nature to me. I forget there are people who have literally never been on a plane (not to mention not knowing that they can opt out of the TSA’s backscatter scanner) or there are those who have a hard time shaking off jet lag with just a two-hour time zone change (a 14-hour difference has become relatively easy for me).

But I’m humbly reminded whenever I speak at an event that there are those who are starting at square one. These folks often request a “starter kit” so to speak. A way to truly get started in traveling alone. This is particularly poignant for widows who’ve been used to traveling with someone and then suddenly find themselves on their own in their mature years. Well…

Want to know how to travel alone?

Planning to Travel Alone
The first thing you want to do is start by planning your solo travel. You’ll want to ask yourself some basic questions about what sort of travel you want to do, which destinations are safest/best for traveling alone, and where and for how long you can travel. Paring it down to the basics will help get you started and you’ll have a better idea as to where you’ll go.

Choosing Your Destination
When traveling solo, there are a number of questions you’ll want to ask yourself when choosing your destination. Particularly if this is one of your first trips (whether domestic or international). Perhaps most importantly, you’ll want to consider your level of confidence in setting out on your own. Some destinations (e.g. India), may not be best for the nervous newbie.

Booking Your Solo Travel
There are lots of online options for booking your flights, hotels, and car rentals. When booking your solo travel, book early and/or use a service that will track the fluctuation in costs to alert you when prices have dropped so you can take advantage of the very best deals.

Blending in with the Locals
Once you’ve arrived, you don’t want to stand out like a TOURIST. There are ways you can blend in with the locals by getting to know what’s happening at your destination and figuring out where the locals go.

Meeting New Friends
Finally, there’s nothing like meeting the locals to make you feel more comfortable at your destination. This will make your trip more meaningful, take the edge off of some of your potential homesickness, and literally making you feel more at home.

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Ultimately, it’s the doing that’s going to make you get comfortable in your own travel shoes. Practice makes perfect, right? So, dive in and have fun!

Travel Well,

Beth

Photo credits:
Woman at Westminster: Matthew Kenwrick

 

 

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  1. Jennifer says

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    Good idea, a “starter kit” for women thinking of traveling alone.

  2. marie says

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    Another lone traveller…

    Suggest that you:
    leave expensive jewelery at home
    Wear your passport and cards – clothes that have security pockets
    copy your documents to intenet so less worries if they get lost.

    Marie

  3. Beth Whitman says

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    Great additional ideas, Marie!

  4. Beth Whitman says

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    Jen – I think there’s a million dollar idea in there 🙂

  5. wanderingeducators says

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    Great ideas – and resources. Thank you!

  6. Linda McCormick says

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    Fab resource. Just sent the article to a friend who’s planning her first solo trip. I’ll thank you for her!

  7. Gabi (The Nomadic Family) says

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    you give such practical advice. i think it will prove very helpful to solo travelers. me? solo travel- maybe one day, for now, we’re a team of five. keep up the great inspirational work. gabi

  8. Sandra Foyt says

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    Great advice, even for those of us who have been traveling for decades. Although I’ve been traveling all my life, it’s always been with companions. Now that my children are older, I’m learning what it’s like to travel alone, and discovering that in many ways it’s a completely different experience.

  9. Jessica J. Hill says

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    You’re so right that practice makes perfect. I think traveling solo is scary for anybody doing it for the first time, but that’s also part of the appeal for some of us. It’s amazing the things you learn the more you do it, and how easy it can become. I love traveling solo – I feel more alive, and I soak up more of the experience. It’s so hard to convince others to face their fear and do the same, but I wish everybody would give it a shot!

  10. Bethaney - Flashpacker Family says

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    I love travelling alone and would encourage anyone to give it a go!

  11. Ziggy says

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    I am a first time solo traveler (been at it two weeks on the north island). So I love traveling alone, can do what you wan when you want! No one or no friends tying you down or wasting valuable exploring time! However, have found myself talking to myself especially when walking round large national parks and valleys! Oh well, any more tips would be greatly appreciated!

  12. Leslie says

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    Thanks for the great advice. I also find that it is helpful to find some sort of “home base” in a new location… Like, a person or place that allows me to get grounded and get information. A lot of the times this ends up being the hostel or hotel where I am staying, but sometimes it is a guide or even a friendly shop keeper.

  13. fred mucai says

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    Great advice. I have traveled alone on many occasions. One thing i discovered is that you get to make more friends when you are alone om a tour than when traveling in a group.

  14. Lou Mohen says

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    I love travelling alone. After two extremely disconcerting adventures where my travelling companions were not a good fit for me, I am all about SOLO travel now. Meet people on the road, leave the others at home.

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