
I did not travel much growing up. Sure, we drove our white Ford station wagon around the country, back in the glorious days when parents cared little about their children’s safety and could lay down the seats to make a completely flat area for napping or playing games. But with six kids and limited funds, my family did not do any international travel, unless you consider the Canadian side of Niagara Falls to be international.
No, I did my traveling in my little bedroom. I read about wonderful European villages where little children dressed in beautiful woolen outfits and picked wildflowers or tended pet goats. Children who lived in brownstones on narrow cobblestone streets and ate chicken and dumplings for lunch. Children who may actually have known the muffin man.
After graduating from college, I worked as a CPA for a number of years. I was in my element in the world of big business, suited up in my Ann Taylor fashions, clutching my leather briefcase, driving all around Denver in my Honda Civic. At one point my company decided to send a co-worker and me to London to test software for a client. Because Laura and I were going to be in London for several weeks, the company decided to rent a two-bedroom flat for us. A flat! I was actually going to live in a flat! One lovely business-class flight later we were on our way to our temporary home. Here’s where the story gets embarrassing.
We got into the taxi and drove through the beautiful countryside to a small village outside London. Did I, a nascent traveler, press my face against the window and drink in the sights and sounds of England, my birthplace? No. I cringed at the effect the humidity was having on my hair and buried my face in my jacket to avoid the pungent scent of previous passengers.
Relieved to arrive at the flat, I jumped out of the cab into the fresh air. Laura and I walked inside and poked around each room. Laura squealed with delight at the English teapot and the claw-footed tub. I, on the other hand, noticed that the tub was brown porcelain, had lime stains in it, and did not appear to possess a showerhead. The bath towels on our beds felt crispy. The appliances were old-fashioned and the apartment had, get this, a rotary phone.
The remainder of the trip was a quest to isolate me from anything British. Laura and I ate lunch at Pizza Hut every day because they had a non-smoking section and a salad bar, two things that most authentic pubs and restaurants didn’t offer. And, after I caught what was likely a common flu bug, poor Laura, who had hardly ever seen me outside a business suit, had to hold me in my bed all night and reassure me that, no, I hadn’t caught the Black Plague or some other virulent foreign disease that my American immune system couldn’t handle.
Toward the end of our trip, Laura and I found time to see a play in London’s West End. As we exited the theater we found ourselves in the middle of a poll tax riot, an event significant enough to make the front page of our Denver Post. Instead of enjoying the unexpected camaraderie of dozens of young Londoners, or watching the patient bobbies on horseback, we ran through the streets hysterically shouting “We’re Americans!” so no one would think that we were, well, them.
I attribute my childish behavior to the insulated life I’d led and my fear of the unfamiliar. Yes, it was only England, but still I experienced culture shock. The smells were different, the sights, the tastes, the feel of the air, the dress, the words, the humor, the politics. In short, everything was different. And I’d only wanted the flowers and the pet goat.
As I’ve continued to travel for the past twenty years, I’ve become more educated about the world, more appreciative of history, and much less afraid of everything and everyone. I realize that different life experiences, especially travel experiences, allow us to access a sort of cosmic energy and expand ourselves into more interesting, understanding and peaceful people. And sometimes the worst of times become our fondest memories.
So now when I experience culture shock, I no longer plug my ears and hum loudly. Instead, I stare straight ahead, take a deep breath and embrace the power of culture chakra!
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